What is it like to be a girl?

I belong to a family where children are raised on the basis of their qualities and not sex. I have never heard my parents saying "no you cannot do this because you are a girl" instead they have always encouraged saying "so what if you are a girl. You need to practice everything to survive in this world". But stepping outside the four walls of my place, a totally alien society is waiting to trim my feathers off. Where people are treated on the basis of their sexes. Where males are in power and the women, even after being empowered by a the government and a certain section of the society, hesitates and is afraid to trust every single male around them.
Witnessing all this what should I do?
Should I blame my parents who raised me wrong or should I blame the society and its members for their biasness and discrimination. So many years have passed witnessing women empowerment in every field and every corner of the world, but the infection of #malechauvinism is not yet fully treated. The roots are still strong and spreading its veins infecting the members of the society.
Taking about all these heinous crimes against women the only question that strikes is Why? . Don't you have mothers and sisters to respect or don't have wives and girlfriends to satisfy your desires. Why do you have to attack others' sisters, mothers and wives. What if one attacks yours?. Will you be able to face them again? It is because of all these #mentallydisabled males that the females are unable to trust them and look at them with a feeling of disgust and are terrified that who among them can attack her any second. Whom to blame, the government takes measures still is not yet successful in controlling crimes against women specially heinous ones. Questioning their upbringing won't be a good idea as many of their families are unaware or what their sons are doing out there.Nothing can be done but to punish them hard for their crimes then only will they understand the pain we females go through.